I just had a huge fight over money matters. Upon checking checks and balances, 1/3 of his money he earned in the last 6 months exactly $6,000.00 is missing from the bank. He gets cash and at first he's been giving me the whole amount but after 4 weeks, he's been depositing it himself. He deposited twice a month and of those times sometimes, not the whole amount.
When I confronted my husband about this, he totally shocked me. He said that's his money and I have no right to ask him. Is e right?
I have an income as well, on the joint account and that was supposed to be saved and not touched, but because he deposited only portions of his pay, my deposits have been depleted!
He also added we should separate the joint account, and do not ask him where his money goes to.