My husband and I are currently in the process of moving. We are staying in the top floor of his parent's house, rent-free, while preparing for the move. The situation is: we are moving into his grandmother's house, and she into his parent's house. The reasoning behind this being that the family doesn't want to send her to a nursing home, and would rather care for her in this stage of her life in their own home setting, which she is rather happy about. In order for the move-in to be complete, my MIL has to sort through all her stuff she has piled in an extra bedroom. Once this is done, the grandmother will have that room. We have already moved a good bit of our stuff over to grandmothers, which like I said, is where we are moving to. The only hold-up is the MIL. She has been putting the cleaning off for about three months now, and we are more than ready to be moved. It seems like everytime she has an opportunity to clean her hoarding room, she decides to take a mini vacation for a couple days, or anything that will get her out of the house. She will even go as far to help other people with tasks, as she is part of the church, even AFTER she has told is she will atay home and clean that day. It seems like she always puts us out of the picture and finds other things to occupy her time. We have tried and tried to talk to her but to no avail. Is she just being lazy? Could there be another reason behind this? Should we just forget it and find another house other than grandmas? Also the FIL has given us set dates as to when the room will be done, but those have all been passed and here we are, no further than before. We are tired of waiting and we are getting pretty upset over the hold-up.