Wondering if anyone else has found themselves in this situation, and how you handled it. My parents divorced when I was young, and my dad was largely uninvolved in raising my brother and I. In the last couple of years, my father and I have begun to develop a relationship, which has constantly caused issues with my mother. I?ve been engaged for a month, and the drama regarding his role in the wedding has begun. The wedding is next year, and questions of who is walking me down the aisle, doing the father/daughter dance, sitting at which table, etc have already arisen. It doesn?t help that he is not planning to financially contribute to the wedding, and it will be financed by my mother, my fianc?, and I. I?m planning to have my brother walk me down the aisle, but I?m not sure how to handle all of the other ?father of the bride? wedding events. He?s going to be there and I feel like if I completely exclude him he will be offended, my mom will be offended if he gets any special acknowledgment, and I really don?t want my family drama to be the highlight of my wedding. That being said, I know the answer is, ?Do what makes you happy?, but I don?t even know what my options are. Just skip the father/daughter dance entirely? Dance with my mom (that will be awkward as dad stands by the wayside).sighhh!! Any suggestions are greatly appreciated!