My husband and I are newlyweds but we've been together since 2007. We've been intimate since we started dating and the sex is good for both of us. But I'm curious because I recently was talking about sex with a coworker and she kept using the phrase "making love." I started thinking: I can honestly say that I don't think I've ever "made love" to my husband. Our sex lives aren't terribly romantic (for me at least.) It's fun and pleasurable. But I don't know if I would call it making love. Is it the same thing? I love my husband. Is something wrong with us/me because I don't feel like we make love? Am I alone in feeling this way?