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WWYD

You all know the antic's MIL has been pulling with us and H still hasnt talked to her since Annabelle's birthday in October. I have messaged her many times to see how shes doing and feeling and she picks and chooses when to respond on FB which is kind of rude but whatever. She never messages me to see how Annabelle is feeling and she didnt even ask what happened when Annabelle went to the ER, which she knew about. Shes just being a total jackass. 

Well remember a while back how I mentioned that she needed a stint put in? Well now there are other heart complications and she needs to go to a cardiologist and may need more heart surgeries etc.  So my issue here is that I dont know if I should try to encourage H to talk to his mom or leave it be and let him make the decision. 

I know she cares about him and loves him but they are both very stubborn and even though its her fault that they arent speaking I wish they would both just bury the hatchet and move on.  I guess I'm fearing that something will happen to her and then he will regret the past few months. I know there is nothing he did wrong but I dont know, this whole situation makes me annoyed. Why cant she just care! 


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BFP 12/2/2012 - MC 12/19/2012 
BFP 03/01/2011 - DD  Annabelle 10/28/2011

Re: WWYD

  • Personally, I'm all about making amends.  I always fear no promise of tomorrow and would hate for someone to live with regret.  When my parents got divorced my brother and my Dad didn't really talk...it was bad.  I spent alot of time trying
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    Until he realizes that he is never going to have the relationship with her that he deserves he is going to continue to be hurt. My dad sucks. My sister gets so upset and hurt every time something is said or done, but I have come to terms with the fact


  • Just from my personal experience with my sister, sometimes you just need to love someone from a distance. If she reaches out, talk, be civil, if doesn't then ok - that's her. Will he talk to her if she did?  
    Eliza Mae - September 16th, 2014

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    Just from my personal experience with my sister, sometimes you just need to love someone from a distance. If she reache

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