I got married about 2 months ago. Not only am I the first of my girlfriends to get married, but I am also the only one in any kind of relationship. That being said, before I was married, me and DH didn't live together, and I used to love going out all night and dancing with my girlfriends during our girls nights.
This past weekend we had our first girls night since I got married, and I just felt so uncomfortable most of the night. Throughout dinner they all talked about meeting guys, dating disasters, how men suck and how it's hard to find a good one...etc. At first I was listening and involved in the conversation, but I couldn't help but feel awkward and left out after while.
After dinner, we all went out and a lot of my girlfriends ended up meeting and flirting with guys. Before I was engaged, I considered myself a good wing-woman and would have fun anyway in situations like these, but this time I just felt uncomfortable and I missed my husband. I ended up leaving early to come home to him. My best friend seemed upset that I didn't stay out and sleep over her place like I had done for years after a night out.
I just wanted to know if any of you have been or are also in this position, and what you do in situations like these. I don't want to exclude myself just because I'm married, but I'm not sure it's appropriate for me to keep going out like this with my single girlfriends. Any words of advice?