So I have a confession..my husband and I got married after only knowing each other for five weeks!!! Our marriage is wonderful, his father and brother are both preachers and they are always there to help us out if we start arguing or anything. I feel extremely blessed but I have been judged so much! I completely understand if your daughter wanted to marry after five weeks, you would probably have a heart attack. I just want some opinions on this. Be honest! It won't hurt! I've lost a lot of friends over this marriage because they think I'm psycho, and I've even had my hometown church members completely abandon me. I was in a relationship with this man for three years that fell apart before meeting my now husband. that relationship was with a guy at my hometown church and ifeel that may be part of the reason the church members wont have anything to do with me. They all expected me to marry him, but after three years he still wouldnt commit and he wouldnt get a job. So i guess after we broke up, everyone looked at me like the bad guy! No one besides my family and his family talks to me, with the exception of a few close friends. Are they right in abandoning me? I just want some healing on this broken heart of mine!