My BIL's birthday is tomorrow. My sister and he never send DH or me cards anymore. Ever. No birthday cards, no Christmas cards, nada. I send her girls both cards and presents for their birthdays and Christmas and I had been sending both her and BIL birthday and Christmas cards. I won't stop with the girls, but I'm kinda fed up with the lack of reciprocity on cards. I know it's stupid. I'm thinking to not send a card (partly because I forgot until today that his birthday is tomorrow). DH says we could send one of our generic cards that we have, but the petty and stupid part of me says screw it. WWYD?