So I had a miscarriage last week and went in for my D&C las Thursday. No one including my mother had any idea I was even pregnant. My hubbs emails his mom the day before my surgery to let her know what's going on b/c he doesn't want to talk openly about our situation while at work.
Long story short, she calls him on Sunday to basically give him a guilt trip for not calling her regarding everything that was going on with me. He kindly explains that he's had a crazy busy week on top of our miscarriage and having to be there for me. She proceeds to give him a hard time about he doesn't call her more often and that she feels like she's the last to know anything. She is also kind of insulted that we are taking my mom on vacation as a thank you for all the free babysitting she has done for us the past 3 yrs even though we kindly told her that its not personal. Besides, we have taken numerous trips with just her and that side of the fam. But anyways!
My MIL always has a way of making things about her somehow even when it clearly is not. My hubbs spent over an hour on Sun trying to explain to her that he has not been available to give her every detail b/c of work and me.
So despite all of this, I still have yet to receive an email or call to ask me directly how I'm doing. WTF? Could she seriously be holding a grudge even though I'm going through something so horrible?