Here's the story. My husband and I have been married for 7 years. We have three kids ages 7,5,1month. We recently moved from Hawaii (where my husband is from and has never left until now) to Illinois. We have been here for 3 months. And ever since we've been here he has been changing. He started work about 2 months ago and ever since he started work and been hanging out with his good friend from work he has changed only for the worse! Lately he's been coming home 2-4 hours after work because he has been drinking with his co workers. With he has never done. I have a problem with him drinking everyday. So we ended up fighting and not talking for 4 days. Then we talked and I agreed to let him have a beer after work as long as he doesn't take it too far and come home after work. Well then today he comes home 2 hours after work and drank several beers. When he finally answered the phone he came home. So when we start fighting he tells me that because we are here now he doesn't have to "listen" to me anymore. He didn't drink as much when we were in hAwaii because he as making me comfortable. But now that we are not with his family and are with mine he's holding it against me! I'm suppose to just suck it up and let him think he can do whatever he wants ?! No I don't think so! So I told him if he's that unhappy and doesn't care what I think then his ass should go home. I'm willing to book his flight for tomorrow! What do you think? You can't just change a marriage of 7 years because we relocated to another state.