I feel like everyone else in the world is perfectly fine with their significant other looking at porn. Although I know this isn't true, it just feels like it. My boyfriend watches and owns some. We've been together for years and he knows I don't have the greatest self image. I 'm not dumb, I've seen it before and I know the girls are always skinny and attractive and basically are everything I'm not. He says he doesn't watch it that much anymore since we got back together but, the fact is is that he still does, whether it be a little or a lot. I suppose cutting back counts for something but I still feel weird with him looking at other girls in that way. He says he the past few times he has watched it, he thought of us. But my question is, if he is happy with me, why would he even need to look at porn? I feel like when we have sex, he thinks about those girls and wishes I looked like them or had their body. I know I need to be more positive about myself but I just can't do it. Someone please tell me what to do
How do most women cope with their men watching other women have sex??