We go to the Home Depot to fix our sink that eye storingly drains into the backyard. My idea is little different from his, not gonna lay out the whole story, but he acted as if my idea was the stupidest idea he'd ever heard. And that's no where near the first time.. On several occasions I would offer my opinion or some advice, and it is usually the same reaction, his idea is better and he acts like I shouldn't have said anything at all! It's aggravating! I just wanna matter, I wanna be heard at least sometimes... Also, anytime I get aggravated about something, I'm always "over reacting" as he likes to say, it's not that big of deal, he says.. We are getting married in a yr, and I don't want to go into a marriage like this! These are the only issues that I feel need addressing, but they are pretty big issues to me.. Anybody been there? Anybody got any advice?