My husband and I just moved into our very first home three weeks ago. Since then, I am expected to clean and do everything with little or no help from him. He doesn't seem to think the house is dirty or any dishes need doing unless I leave him a list. Granted, he does work 7 am to 3:30 pm and is tired when he gets home but I also work an 8 hour day and don't get home till 6 which barely even gives me enough time to cook dinner. Which we actually agreed he would do on days I work and of course, he doesn't. I can spend all day cleaning the house and then ask him to do something, like put his dish in the dishwasher or pick up the garage, and he will sit there and tell me I haven't done anything all day so why don't I do it. I have talked to him about it and told him it hurts my feelings because I seem to do a lot more than he seems to think I do. He says sorry and then the next week does it again. Apparently, the house becomes magically clean while I sit on the couch and do nothing all day. I have no idea what to do and this whole issue is driving me insane. I have contemplated not doing anything, washing his clothes, doing his dishes, and just let him pick up after himself when he feels it is getting to cluttered and messy. But of course, after that I would get called childish and be told how I need to grow up. I really honestly don't know how to handle this situation at all. We talked about it and I thought it was dealt with but apparently not. This is our first house together, by ourselves, and I really don't want things to stay this way.