About a year ago I had an abnormal Pap. I did not know much about HPV before that, and wish that I had. Apparently I either had it before I got the shots and it just didn't show up until now, or got a kind that the shots didn't protect me from. Either way I was told I had a mild displasia and that the best thing would be to freeze the cells. A quick treatment and I should have no further problems. I asked about sex and getting pregnant after having it done and she said it was no problem. It would not prevent me from getting pregnant or have problems with sex. Although I was not supposed to have sex for four weeks afterwards to not irritate the area.
At first I noticed no difference. After the four weeks my husband and I went back to sex as normal. We both had high sex drives and sex several times a week and more on weekends was usual. However I noticed that when he went in deeper it hurt. A couple times so bad we had to instantly stop and I didn't want to move. It felt like someone had punched me in the gut from the inside out. I think that is what started to effect my sex drive. I was scared to have sex and experience that pain again. I have since just stopped doing certain things and we don't get creative anymore. I won't let him go in deep at all either.
Now I don't physically want sex as much, and I find it hard to get lubricated. A problem I have never had. Simply touching me and talking to me could get me thoroughly wet. We have used a lubricant that came in a box of condoms and at first I didn't think much of it. But lately it has been getting steadily worse. I can't seem to naturally lubricate at all. Once a little lubricant is used I am fine, but I can't seem to get started without it. I want to, but when he touches me nothing happens, and I am so dry it kind of hurts and then I really lose all desire to have sex leaving my husband in a bad situation.
I talked to the Dr. but again she told me it wasn't the HPV treatment. I am not so sure. When he has gone in deep it only seems to hurt if he hits a certain spot, and that is the same spot it felt like I had been punched when I initially got the treatment. Like cramping during your period.
I have tried to do research online and have found no situations like mine. Everyone seems fine after a few weeks from the treatment. I am not sure if it is something to do with that, or at this point if it is mental. Whatever it is I want it gone. I want my awesome sex life back and I don't know what to do. It is starting to effect my marriage too and by most standards we should still be in the 'honeymoon stage' Any suggestions would be appreciated.