I am using an AE for a reason. I can assure you this isn't MUD.
If you found out your SO was hiding money from you, and when you asked them about it, they said it was "their" retirement fund (not joint), what would you do?
I am thinking I need to start my own stash.... we have 2 children together. I am a SAHM, and do not have an existing 401K or Roth IRA. Things had been rocky for about 1 year, about 2 years ago, but we were in a better place more recently.
Suddenly, I am feeling very anxious about where our relationship maybe headed.