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Husband lied to me and now I feel like I can't trust him.
My husband decided he was going to "rat the streets". His exact words were "I"m gonna go bring this guy his shoes and hang out for a little bit. I will only be 30 mins." He knew I had night class so I was supposed to be out for hours. Well my babysitter fell through so I had to stay home. After about an hr, I just happened to try and get on fb and found a message from him to some girl saying "on my way" that was sent 45 mins before. I know he isn't cheating but y would he lie. So I txt him "Where r u". He replied "Walmart". I said "What r u doing at Walmart" He replied "Drinks" and asked me y I wasnt in school. I explained about the babysitter. Then I asked him y did he lie to me about where he was going and how long he was going to take. He replied "thought u would be in school" Then I asked him about the girl on fb and he said that was who he took to walmart and her mother too. I feel betrayed. Doesnt matter what he was doing. He lied to me. His explanation is that he didnt want to tell me cuz he wasnt sure how i would react. He basically is turning it on me and saying he lied to me because of how I act and treat him. I dont know how to forgive him and how he could blame him lying on me.