Is anyone currently going through a divorce and had to make the list of common property you want to take with you? I'm having to make the list right now and email it to my attorney by 2pm. I hate doing this. I don't want a divorce. I cant believe my husband wants to throw away our marriage. Even when he is being hateful telling me how much he hates our marriage and doesn't want me anymore, I still care for him. He is the love of my life and I meant our wedding vows with all my heart. Now our marriage has come down to a list of what I want and what he wants. I miss the good times. The baseball games, the football games, holding hands together during church. My heart is broken.