DH and I have worked hard to get where we are today. We both have good jobs, live in a nice home, and are able to save a little each month to put towards retirement. Don't get me wrong, we are not making tons of money, but we are conservative with our spending so we have a nice amount in our savings. DH's family are not that way. Due to bad financial choices in their life, everyone of my In Laws are struggling financially. This includes my husband's parents. My husband's siblings are all in their 30s and should know better.
Whenever anyone is in financial trouble, they come crying to DH and I to bail them out. This year alone, we've been asked at least 10 times for loans from the inlaws. I'm not talking little $200 loans. These are $1000 loans. They all know what to say to DH to pull on his heart strings and make him feel sorry for them. A lot of times he will give them the loan because he feels bad for them and feels that as a Christian he should help his family. This is driving me crazy because I feel like I don't work as hard as I do to support his lazy family. I don't want their burden to be mine. Anytime I get upset with DH about this he gets mad at me because he things I'm being too harsh on his family. He always throws the Christian card at me saying it is the right thing to do to help family in need. I'm worried that they are going to bring us down with them. What do I do???