Well, I will keep it short and to the point...
Things were going well... we had started therapy and I was really hopeful that he and I could make things work, then after one drunken night out with his friends, he returned home in a fit of anger.
In a matter of moments he was screaming and breaking things ( I have no clue where this came from and at one point asked him if he was on drugs... he said "no!" and his friends later confirmed that they did not suspect that drugs were in the picture.)
Any ways, he quickly became violent and physical with me... after 20 minutes of trying to get away (he held me from leaving and carried me back inside when I ran out of the house to my car.) I was able to escape and call the cops.
He was arrested and I have a restraining order on him. I moved out the following day and plan to never see this mad man again. I am so thankful that I left when I did and from this point on I will never go against my gut instinct! This has been a night mare but I am so relieved that I do not have to live another day on egg shells or frightened of "pushing his buttons". Lesson learned.
Thanks for listening!