This is my first post on here, so I am not sure if most of you have foreign spouses or spouses of the same nationality. But here is my question; do you ever feel that you and your spouse might not have the same long term goals? I think my spouse and I are a great match, except reading his essays for business school applications makes him sound like he wants to go back to his native country and become president there one day.
I am all for helping others in his country, but reading the essays sent chills down my spine. I do not want to live in his country. I do not like it for anything more than a vacation - the culture is too different. Of course, we have talked about this, it's just what i see coming out in his essays that worries me.
Anyone experience something similar? Or something where you see your loved one's goals as directly threatening to yours?