So I had no idea what BNOTB meant and I am so glad I clicked on it. I am 25, about to be 26, and married to a US soldier. We are surrounded EVERYWHERE by families with small children and I feel like I am the only one who doesn't have any. We are just happy where we are right now and the thought of kids actually terrifies me at this point. So anyway, I am glad to know I am normal and there are others out there who are OK with not having kids just because they got married!