I'm a newlywed of almost 3 months and I don't understand how people keep there houses clean all the time. I really want to have a clean house, but it seems like that is all I can get done. Then when it's clean my poor DH finds some way of destroying the kitchen again. I guess I need to find a good schedule. I tried to do stuff on flylady.com, but the emails were way to overwhelming. I think I am going to start picking up the house at least 15 minutes before I go to bed. I think our biggest problem is paper clutter. I don't know how to manage it b/c half of his mail I don't know if I can throw away or not. Anybody have any suggestions? Cleaning gets a little stressful when you don't have time.