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Sex tape?

So my fiance was saying the other day that we should make a sex tape, just for us obviously. I have never done this sort of thing before but I really think I may be open into trying it. In all honesty, has anybody else ever done this? var fctb_tool=null; function FCTB_Init_195d72fd43094829a3acc9f59edbc43f(t) { fctb_tool=t; start(fctb_tool); } FCTB_Init_195d72fd43094829a3acc9f59edbc43f(document['FCTB_Init_2b00032e6cf147d99af53a7a3aee9afc']); delete document['FCTB_Init_2b00032e6cf147d99af53a7a3aee9afc']
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Re: Sex tape?

  • I'd be extremely leery of it.

    You never know where it may wind up or who else besides you and your H will see it.

    Why in the world is he suggesting an idea like this?

    Out of boredom? Is he unhappy with your sex life? Did he read about this idea someplace and he's thinking this will be a great thing to do?

    I'd make no tape with him until you sit down and find out what the real motivation behind this superspectacular idea is.

    Personally, I would not do it.

    And if you are not comfortable with the idea of it or hate the idea, do NOT do it. You should have no hesitation telling him no. And he should have no problems saying okay to you saying no to the tape.

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    I'd be extremely leery of it.

    You never know where it may wind up or who else besides you and your H will see it.

    Why in the world is he suggesting an idea like this?

    Out of boredom? Is he unhappy with your sex life? Did he read about this idea someplace and he's thinking this will be a great thing to do?

    I'd make no tape with him until you sit down and find out what the real motivation behind this superspectacular idea is.

    Personally, I would not do it.

    And if you are not comfortable with the idea of it or hate the idea, do NOT do it. You should have no hesitation telling him no. And he should have no problems saying okay to you saying no to the tape.

     

    He just wants to do something kinky

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  • Yeah, but why particularly a sex tape?

    Suppose you agree to it -- BUT --- you make an old fashioned tape where you keep the chip that it is on, the second you are done viewing the tape and you hide the chip in a place where you alone know where it is. This way you make sure only you and him have seen it and nobody else will ever see it but you and him?

    Here is another suggestion:

    Suppose you have bouidour photos taken, as an alternative to the tape?

    you control the nudity and amount of skin and you let him see the photos --- you could DIY or go have them taken by a pro who specializes in boudour photos.
  • Will you be filming while pregnant

     Let's just say somewhere stashed is an old sex tape (before digital) and I worry that when i die offspring will find it and want to burn out their retinas 

     

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    Will you be filming while pregnant

     Let's just say somewhere stashed is an old sex tape (before digital) and I worry that when i die offspring will find it and want to burn out their retinas 

     

     Hah I never thought about that

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  • Apparently this is a very common thing to do......

     

    However, you might like to consider hiding your identity by not showing your faces or by wearing dark glasses etc.    Also keep the finished files on a memory stick that is protected by password,..you can get inexpensive software to help with this.

     

    It's worth remembering that any editing of the footage will have to go thru the hard drive of your computer and thus will NOT be removed by deleting contrary to most peoples assumption.    Only this morning there is an item on the BBC News site about how easy it is to restore private info from used/disposed/deleted hard drives.   In a test 48% of 'wiped' hard drives had info that could be regained.

     

    So, if you are going to try this protect yourselves from 'the future'....... 

  • If your going to do it tell him you want to use your camera and you want the sim card. This way your protecting yourself no matter what happens.
  • I hate to admit I did this when I was younger.. It's a 'turn on' the idea of doing it in tape but once said as done its not that great to watch.. we watched it.. Deleted it.. Moved on.. I don't know why everybody's saying hide it.. How often do you plan on watching it? What you think you look like having sex and watch you look like on camera sometimes not that most flattering lol just saying 
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    Don't do it. 

    Many people have regretted making a sex tape.. But do you ever hear anyone say "Man, I really wish I recorded that intimate encounter with that boyfriend that one time!"?

    Nope.

    If you really have to do it, recorder it digitally, watch it right after, and then make sure YOU delete it.  Seriously.  There are sites dedicated to men uploading videos of their gfs and wives.  And while this may be rare, why take the chance?  No one ever regrets NOT making a sex tape. 

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    image oldbugle:

    It's worth remembering that any editing of the footage will have to go thru the hard drive of your computer and thus will NOT be removed by deleting contrary to most peoples assumption.    Only this morning there is an item on the BBC News site about how easy it is to restore private info from used/disposed/deleted hard drives.   In a test 48% of 'wiped' hard drives had info that could be regained.

    I just wanted to chime in on this.. "Deleted" items on a computer aren't actually deleted.  You can truly wipe a PC's drive, but it takes more powerful software than the average person has.

    When you "delete" something, it isn't actually deleted.  It just resets the file and allows it to be overwritten.  All of the info is still available to the computer savvy person.  So, if you delete a homemade video, it's still on your hard drive, until that file queues up and it gets erased by something saving over it.  But you generally will never know when that will actually happen.

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    No one ever regrets NOT making a sex tape. 

    Yes 

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  • I would consider it IF and only if we watched it one time and deleted it together right afterwards. I don't want to save it, and I don't want anything popping up in the future regarding it.


    However, that's not to say that I think everyone should do it and if you're not comfortable with it don't do it.

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  • I would not do it.  There's always a risk that it would not stay private.
  • Seriously, don't do it.

    Google wife and girlfriend porn. You'd be shocked at how many of these things end up on the internet for anyone to see.

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  • IMHO, the only sex tapes that one should own have VIVID studios copyright on them.

    Too much potential for something like that to end up outside the bedroom.

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    Don't do it. 

    Many people have regretted making a sex tape.. But do you ever hear anyone say "Man, I really wish I recorded that intimate encounter with that boyfriend that one time!"?

    Nope.

     

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  • If you are into the idea of watching your self, just hook your camera up to the tv. It doesn't have to be recording, but if you use a cable its still a live feed to the tv. Just buy a cable at Walmart if you don't have one on hand.
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