Family Matters
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email [email protected]

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

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  • imageCurlyQ284:
    Is this MUD?

     That was my very first thought.

  • imageVelvetshady:

    imageReturnOfKuus:
    You know, it doesn't make you a bad person not to want to deal with a guy's drama-laden ex and kid.  You don't have to marry, or even date, guys with that kind of baggage if you don't want to.  You know that, right?

    It does, however, make you a bad person to marry a guy when you don't want to deal with his drama-laden ex and kid.

    And if you are more worried about your Pretty Princess Day than your long term relationships with people that *will* be in your future life, you shouldn't be getting married at all.

     All of this. I ended a relationship with a man who had a child from a previous marriage because there was a lot of drama with his ex and his child---I decided that he and the situation were not for me. I met DH a few months later. 

    This is a little girl. She does not deserve to be treated as anything less than important. She has feelings and how she is treated by her family (which will include you if you marry her father) she will impact how she sees herself the rest of her life.

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  • While I agree with everyone saying that you need to love and commit to this little girl as much as your FI, I have to put some blame on him as well for still wanting to marry YOU, after you have expressed the fact that you don't want HIS daughter in YOUR wedding.  Personally, I think he should dump you a$$.  Just Sayin.
    Nicole


    Mommy to Ella Grace 6/4/05
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