My BIL is 19 and a spoiled little brat. Apparently, he has had his feeling hurt by me and hasnt spokent to me since last July. My husband is 33. There is a huge age diff and everyone has always babied my BIL. My BIL is very very spoiled. But We have always managed to have a good relationship util he got a bug up his ass.
According to my MIL who is completely responsible for making this kid a spoiled little a$$hole.. His feelings were hurt when I told him at his HS graduation party ((LAST SUMMER IN JU:Y)))that I didnt like him. My reaction..I didnt even really get a chance to talk to him at his grad party and why would I even waste my time telling him something stupid like that. I didnt tell him that at all. Again, with the childish lies and drama. and my MIL is so stupid. ..she falls for it and doesnt ever call him out. ..double standards apply for her baby.
So, my husband spoke to him around November.THIs conversation included an apology and then He pretty much said get over it. and we are not going to waste time with this stupid drama that my BIL has created. But everytime we talk to him, once I say something, he suddenly has to go and hangs up. I have a great relationship with my in laws and they agree that he needs to get over it but really havent called him out on it. I have pretty much learned to ignore it becasue I dont want to add fuel to the fire by giving attention to this immature behavior. But it really does piss me off.
Today, I called and he picked up the phone. I said hi and asked what was up. He hung up the phone. This is what I mean by spoiled brat. He makes up *** and has his mother believing it and then doesnt want to talk to me based on a lie. I called my mother in law who I wanted to speak to orignially and told her what happened. I haven spoken to her about this issue since November. And made it clear that I have tried to make attempts to make this better by basically ignoring it and moving on and that little fvcker wont let iti happen.
She said his feelings were hurt. And just kept saying that. Well, first off, its based on a lie and second, when is this kid gonna be told to get over it and put his big boy panties on?!
Am I selffish to be pissed off right now? Its all about his baby feelings but for the last seven months I have been ignored and treated rudely. When do I get to be pissed off?
ETA: We recently moved out of state for DH's new job. Its been an adjustment for everyone...probably more than we realized for his stupid brother. But I know his parents have been talking about the move, my husband's new job ALOT...which takes a huge chuck of attention off the BIL.. who is very used to getting ALL of it. Now its all starting to make sense. Its even more important now that we dont give the stupid monkey more attention