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New here and needing advice
My boyfriend left for basic training a couple of months ago. We can only talk by writing letters. I've only gotten one so far and I think he is cheating on me. Wouldn't he have written more? So since all I can think about is the fact that he might be cheating, I am feeling attracted to this guy at work. I am a waitress at Applebees and he is a cook. I am trying to fight the feeling but it is hard. How do you guys put up with this during your man's absence? I am so confused. I don't know what to do. I love him, but I don't think he's being faithful. His only letter didn't even mention that he loves me. Please help!
We put the "her" in "hero"
Re: New here and needing advice
I'm having a bad day, so i'm probably going to sound like a *** but you need to grow up! If you don't trust your bf your relationship is NEVER going to work out, and they don't spend all day writing letters.
I love my man and TRUST him, I know he wouldn't do anything same as he trusts me. That should be the main ingreadiant in a relationship. most of the time i don;t even noticed other men.
Besides your lack of letters (which there could be many reasons for) Why else do you think he is cheating?
LOL
You can't even spell, so no thanks for your advice.
Thank you. That's exactly how I've been feeling. I guess whenever he gets home we will figure it out. My eye candy at work is nothing serious, but he will keep me occupied for now. But we are supposed to get married in the fall, I guess I am feeling guilty?!??
Part of gearing up for a pretty pretty princess wedding is feeling loved. If you don't feel loved by your boyfriend (sorry, I referred to him as husband), you need to find it somewhere. I mean, if your boyfriend really loves you, he'd want you to feel loved/sexy/appreciated, am I right?
Maybe that's why you named your kid Cyrus. Hello Billy Ray!
Because we have an entire wedding planned. We've already bought the dress and reserved the reception hall. What am I supposed to do?
That's right but you have to lie to all of your family to make it like a real wedding.
Maybe that's it. Thanks. I am just out of sorts. I don't know what I should do! And no, Applebees doesn't pay a lot of money, but I support myself. I don't use my bf's money for anything. We are putting all of that toward our wedding.
HAHA! That is one of those things you should google before giving your child a name for life! LOLOLOL. But who am I to talk, my bf is cheating.
I'm so glad to see you were at least able to take the time out of cheating to come up with a nice slogan for your sig. When you get tired of that one you should put one about how being a spouse is the toughest job in the military.
67/200
Only on the weekends, Mary.
LOL
Oh man, has he been there since the repeal of Don't Ask, Don't Tell? I bet you were just a front until that went through.
Thanks. What is wrong with these people? I'm just asking for advice. And I am so sad about the situation, and nobody seems to care.
ROFL at both of you.