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sex at a party

a girlfriend and i are debating. If it was quick and very thoroughly cleaned up after would you call it inappropriate and gross to have sex in the bathroom at a party at someone's house?

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  • I'm all for a good time, but if it happened at MY house, I would feel pretty disrespected. I'm cool with most anything but having sex in my home is just a no-no.
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    I'm all for a good time, but if it happened at MY house, I would feel pretty disrespected. I'm cool with most anything but having sex in my home is just a no-no.

     

    Hear hear! 

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  • Yes it's gross and disrespectful. Just have a good make out session, leave the party, and go have sex in your own place, hotel, etc.
  • Thank you everyone! Yay I'm, glad I am not the only one who thought it was a bad idea!
  • I think that if it was anal, it would be disrespectful, but anything else I would be fine with.
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    I think that if it was anal, it would be disrespectful, but anything else I would be fine with.

    So you're ok with anal but not bjs? 

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    I think that if it was anal, it would be disrespectful, but anything else I would be fine with.

    So you're ok with anal but not bjs? 

    Do you have a reading comprehension problem?! I said that anal would be disrespectful! 

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    I think that if it was anal, it would be disrespectful, but anything else I would be fine with.

    So you're ok with anal but not bjs? 

    Do you have a reading comprehension problem?! I said that anal would be disrespectful! 

    At someone elses house, meaning you would do it in your own.  Or do you send him to a hooker for that too?

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  • Yes, it is inappropriate to have sex in your host's bathroom.
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  • It is only inappropriate if some finds out!
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    I think that if it was anal, it would be disrespectful, but anything else I would be fine with.

    Anything else....BJs included?  

     

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    I think that if it was anal, it would be disrespectful, but anything else I would be fine with.

    Anything else....BJs included?  

     

    As long as the receiver wears a condom and then wraps it toilet paper before depositing it into the waste basket. I would also hope that the giver would bring their own mouthwash so that they weren't walking around the party breathing penis germs on everyone.

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  • Penis germs? Seriously lady how old are we?
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    I think that if it was anal, it would be disrespectful, but anything else I would be fine with.

    Anything else....BJs included?  

     

    As long as the receiver wears a condom and then wraps it toilet paper before depositing it into the waste basket. I would also hope that the giver would bring their own mouthwash so that they weren't walking around the party breathing penis germs on everyone.

     

     You CANNOT be serious. BJ's are off limits but having ANAL sex in someone else's home is acceptable?! Get off this board, you are either insane or just messing around. 

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    I think that if it was anal, it would be disrespectful, but anything else I would be fine with.

    Anything else....BJs included?  

     

    As long as the receiver wears a condom and then wraps it toilet paper before depositing it into the waste basket. I would also hope that the giver would bring their own mouthwash so that they weren't walking around the party breathing penis germs on everyone.

     

     You CANNOT be serious. BJ's are off limits but having ANAL sex in someone else's home is acceptable?! Get off this board, you are either insane or just messing around. 

    If you get penis breath from anal, there are bigger problems than sanity.  It is never okay to go @ss to mouth!!! 

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  • she clearly stated that anal was NOT OK  but that other forms of sex were ... i agree i seen nothing wrong with a hot sneaky moment with your SO ... i certainly wouldnt have sex in my hosts bed but i wouldn't be above a quicky in the garden/bathroom/closet/anywhere else privet
  • I agree with some previous posters, a quick makeout session is fine but I wouldn't have full blown sex at someone else's house party. I'd feel disrespected if it happened in my own house. Plus, someone would totally suspect you were up to something if they saw you two go into the bathroom and stay in there for a while. I'd be angry. 
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    she clearly stated that anal was NOT OK  but that other forms of sex were ... i agree i seen nothing wrong with a hot sneaky moment with your SO ... i certainly wouldnt have sex in my hosts bed but i wouldn't be above a quicky in the garden/bathroom/closet/anywhere else privet

    Thank you! Apparently, several people on this forum have reading comprehension problems. Either that or they just get too excited when they see the word "anal" and can't think with enough clarity to finish a sentence. 

    I also wanted to add that I do not think tossing the salad would be acceptable either. No amount of Listerine could kill arse germs. I am only okay with butt licking if it's done in your own home with a dental dam, or Saran wrap.

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    she clearly stated that anal was NOT OK  but that other forms of sex were ... i agree i seen nothing wrong with a hot sneaky moment with your SO ... i certainly wouldnt have sex in my hosts bed but i wouldn't be above a quicky in the garden/bathroom/closet/anywhere else privet

     

    Yep you're right, I misread what she said.  

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    she clearly stated that anal was NOT OK  but that other forms of sex were ... i agree i seen nothing wrong with a hot sneaky moment with your SO ... i certainly wouldnt have sex in my hosts bed but i wouldn't be above a quicky in the garden/bathroom/closet/anywhere else privet

    Thank you! Apparently, several people on this forum have reading comprehension problems. Either that or they just get too excited when they see the word "anal" and can't think with enough clarity to finish a sentence. 

    I also wanted to add that I do not think tossing the salad would be acceptable either. No amount of Listerine could kill arse germs. I am only okay with butt licking if it's done in your own home with a dental dam, or Saran wrap.

    Clearly Crystal is hilarious and no one on this board has a decent sense of humor...

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    As long as the receiver wears a condom and then wraps it toilet paper before depositing it into the waste basket. I would also hope that the giver would bring their own mouthwash so that they weren't walking around the party breathing penis germs on everyone.

     

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  • I think it's bad to do anything considered public indecency at a party. I wouldn't be cool with it at my house, unless it was a couple I was having stay over as guests. (like if they were out of town and staying with us.) but if you're at a bar or party, you're there for the company, not to have sex. 
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  • that's not too great for me.
  • How many people will be there? How many bathrooms are there?

    You should probably use the patio. If they have privet, that's where it will be.

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  • A couple I used to work actually with broke another co-worker's sink/vanity while going at it during a party.  So no, I probably wouldn't take the chance.
  • I wouldn't even clean it up... If a forensics team came in it'd look worse then any CSI scene when I was done!?
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