Been having some issues in the sexual attraction department. Husband and I are having some other marriage issues, but a good chunk is related to sexual passion/desire.
I really enjoy sex, but it's not good with my husband. He is pretty bad at sex ? I?ve been pretty clear about what I like and we?ve even gotten some books. He?s suggested watching porn together, but it just feels weird to watch it with him (I have nothing against watching porn however). I kind of have been pushing him away anytime he tries to be sweet and affectionate (kissing me, hugging me, etc). I just don't want to be touched by him. When we have sex (which is still pretty regular - about 2x/week), it really is more for physical satisfaction.
Any thoughts/ideas to build up the sexual attraction/passion? We've been together 6 years, and just wondering how others have continued to keep that passion alive.