SIL is pregnant. We found out just after Thanksgiving.
Prior to this, DH and I were planning a great weekend getaway with his parents. Just the 4 of us enjoying ourselves on the lake, sailing around etc. But, I just learned that the baby is due the day before we are scheduled to leave.
I already know that MIL will refuse to go anywhere. I'm ok with that. If I were pregnant I would want my mom around too.
But - since DH and I have an awful relationship with SIL, I personally think we should go ahead and go ourselves.
My ? for you all is - how would you feel if your B and SIL took a vacation when your child was being born? We consider our "relationship" to be non existent, We are only cordial to each other when around others, and when not around others we simply avoid each other. Thoughts? I very much doubt anything will change between now and then in our relationship - - if that helps.