Hi, I just had a question. I know having when having sex you create oxytocin and feel more bonded to your partner and all that. However, my issue is that when we are having sex frequently I feel great about the relationship and loving towards dh. When we are not, I feel very distant from him and somewhat uninterested and doubts start creeping in. He can sense this, and has said he feels like I'm only interested in sex with him. While that's not true, I do get frusturated if we are cuddly all night, then he falls asleep on the couch and there's basically no chance of anything happening that night. And I do sometimes initiate in this situation, but then I often feel like I wind up doing all the "work" and can't always tell how into it he is. We sometimes have really great sex for a period of time, or he wants it multiple times a day etc. and then it just falls off. Is it normal for a man's sex drive to be this variable? Is it normal to be so effected by sex?