What do you use for dinnerware that you are comfortable microwaving and putting on the bottom rack in the dishwasher ? I have not purchased dishes in years, ok actually never! Mine are all hand me downs and we need to buy more. I would like to buy a modern looking set, but am not certain where to look, what materials to avoid,etc... Would you just buy some from pottery Barn, Macy's,etc that say dishwasher/microwave safe ?Thanks !!