Im new to this board. Ive been married a year and half but we have been together for 4. Things have been pretty good. Normal arguments but we have been fine. My husband worked nights and didnt like his job. We decided to move to my hometown for a better job for him. He was really excited about the whole thing, we started early summer. I found a great new job with a large raise. He found a new job. It wasnt exactly what he wanted but he wouldnt be working 3pm to 5am anymore. He would be working 2pm to 11pm. Not wonderful but much improved. With his old job, we lived 2 differnt lives in one house. He slep in the basement because the noises of the day would wake him. We only slept in the same bed during the weekend.
We sold our house and bought a new house. Its a wonderful house and he is proud of it. We close in 2 weeks. He started his new job last week. He doesnt like it. All of a sudden, the old job that he didnt like, has become the best job he has ever had and is sad about leaving it. FYI he has never left his hometown. Our new house/life is an hour away.
He came home yesterday very angry. He said that I made him move to a place where he doesnt know anyone, and made him take a job he didnt like.
This is crazy to me. I told him I didnt make him do anything, we made these decisions together. I told him that we dont have to move and he can go back to his job. He said its too late (it kinda is). I told him to find a new job, anything he wants to make him happy. He said its too late.
I just dont know what to do. I dont want him to resent me for this. I really didnt make him do it. I encouraged the decisions he made because they will be much better for us as a family. He agreed with this. Any suggestions?