It's MIL's birthday. (Background: I don't particularly like her, but I'm pleasant enough when I have to be.) DH and I have always just "owned" our own family's gifts, etc.
MIL's sister (who I'm closer to), emailed ME and asked if DH sent MIL a gift or card. WTF? I am not his mommy - check with HIM whether he did that or not.
He called her to say happy b-day about 30 minutes ago, before aunt-in-law emailed me. Admittedly totally late in the day. But MIL doesn't call DH on his birthday or jump up and down for others. And Aunt emailing means MIL called her crying or some $hit whining about how DH didn't observe HER DAY.
I told DH he needed to get his family in control and that they need to get a fvcking grip. I am not his keeper. He told me to delete it without responding (I did), but I can't let it go. Did BIL's fiancee get a call? BIL never recognizes anyone because he's a selfish POS. Sorry, vent over.
(I think I dislike my ILs more with every holiday / event.)