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beer gut butts in during sex

Not to go into too much detail but:

He's great in bed but lately I've been finding myself on top....always....

Not that it gets tiring, but does get boring after a while.

Unfortunately we can't really achieve any other positions successfully because he has a large "one-pack" that gets in the way (ALOT!) & it seems our height differences are interfering too. (I have long legs, short torso, he's the opposite.) Picture doggy and trying to get the right height but having to bend your knees Crying

 Just curious if anyone is/has experienced this & would like to suggest how I can change things up?

I could tell it really bothers him when we try new stuff and it ends up not working out, he just gets totally turned off after.

Never knew a beer gut could hijack our sex life!

Please don't say make him lose weight because he is in the process of doing so. I'm just looking for a solution now! Wink And he doesn't drink beer (actually hates it) but I didn't know what else to call it!


Re: beer gut butts in during sex

  • It is what it is, as the expression goes. A beer belly is a beer belly.

    Try spooning --- see if that turns the trick. 

    That he's doing something about his weight should be, for him, very encouraging indeed. GL.
  • DH is a whole foot taller than me and we're oppositely proportioned too.  I have short legs and a long torso, and he has long legs and short torso, and we're both kind of hefty.  What we've really enjoyed lately is me laying on the end of the bed with my legs up in a V, and him standing kneeling at the edge of the bed. Feels Ah ah ah mazing.Wink
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  • Try to follow me here... This works for us, he's 5'11 I'm 5'2... He has a gut which he is working on losing as well... Have him lay on his side, you lay on your back, almost a T shape... put the leg closer to his feet in between his legs and the other leg over top of his hip... Not sure if I described this right, anyone else who knows what I'm talking about feel free to try to explain it better than me lol! GL!
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    Try to follow me here... This works for us, he's 5'11 I'm 5'2... He has a gut which he is working on losing as well... Have him lay on his side, you lay on your back, almost a T shape... put the leg closer to his feet in between his legs and the other leg over top of his hip... Not sure if I described this right, anyone else who knows what I'm talking about feel free to try to explain it better than me lol! GL!

    You described it perfectly - that is actually our favorite position! DH reallys likes it because he can play with me as well while we are having sex - we both orgasm when we position that way. 

     

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  • If your DH can be on top maybe try having you on your stomach propped up with your elbows and DH on top. I love this position when I'm just too tired and we both have great orgasms!
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