When my husband and I started having sex, we always used condoms. I felt bad about it because he always wanted to go natural, so I started on birth control. After we got married, we started having sex less and I hated taking the pill because of they way it made me feel. (I always felt bloated even though I didn't really gain weight, plus I was hardly ever in the mood because of it.) Eventually, I stopped taking the pill, but it's next to impossible to get him to wear a condom. When he has tried, he can't um, keep himself in the mood, because he compares it to the feeling of not wearing anything and it doesn't feel as good.
I guess I'm just going to have to suck it up and get back on birth control. Does anyone else have a hard time getting their husband to wear a condom? Trust me, I enjoy the sex so much more without him using one, but even though he pulls out, I always end up scared that I'll get pregnant anyway.