So, first post on TN... I swear I will try to be as brief as possible but I don't want to leave out important details either.
We've been married just over a week and we were virgins, though we found quite a bit to do without having direct genital contact. On our honeymoon, we were only really successful about half the times we attempted to have sex. One of three things would happen: 1) It wouldn't go in at all and we gave up after a while. 2) It went in, at least partially. But then we made one move and it just bent and slid out. 3) (the successful times) It went in maybe halfway and stayed in and we were both able to enjoy ourselves.
It's really disappointing and frustrating to me that this is so difficult. Is it actually normal to have to practically force the penis in by hand? Are we doing something wrong? And the lack of depth confuses me as well. I have a toy just shy of his size that I can fit all the way in, so why not him too? Lubrication can't be the problem, since he's eaten me out every time before we tried penetration. And unfortunately, I won't be able to actually try any suggestions until next week when my pill period is over and I can start my new pack.