I adore my MIL, I really really do!! But feel like she is just really holding on tight to her son, my DH, in terms of doing "motherly" stuff for him like making appointments, doing his laundry etc (yeah she tells him to bring over his work shirts if he wants...he doesn't; I take care of all housework in our house!). (Scheduling eighteen thousand family events so we can hang out with them every second of every day...posted about that earlier this week).
Well MIL made DH a dentist and Drs appt at the providers near their house (about 40 minutes away from our house). I called today, canceled them, and made new appointments at providers right near our house. I don't plan on telling MIL, but in the future when she tells DH she will be making him an appointment, DH will be saying "oh no Ma, my WIFE will take care of that."
felt very vindicated canceling the appointments that she made DH and I are building our own lives and can make our own appointments. Thank you!