I know I should be over this, but how to you deal when your mother and your grandmother (her MIL) don't get along?
It frustrates me because my mom lays a guilt trip on me if I spend time at my grandmas.
We live 100 miles away and she's missing time with her grandson when we occasionally spend time with Grandma, because she won't come to grandma's house (four blocks away from her home). Instead she asks "why can't just here?" I spend more time at my parents than at Grandmas.
I'm sorry if this doesn't make much sense, but its been a long day. I'll clarify what I can