Thanks for replying to me in the Moms post! I find Ferber interesting, but don't think it would work for us. I have a really hard time tolerating her crying firstly (what mother doesn't I suppose!), but also, even the times when I have had to leave her to cry for a couple minutes just so I can go to the restroom or something, coming back and just patting her back or giving her her soother doesn't work at ALL, just works her up more. Picking her up does help, then we can put her back. So I feel like that deviates from his main point! GL though, I think we ALL deserve some more sleep, but especially you! Let me know how it goes!