So my 40 year old cousin (D) had told his 19 year old half sister (C) that she is MY half sister too. Yeah NO!
She contacted me via facebook and said yay we are sister, you are the sister I never knew I had. I told her that it was not true and she needed to speak with her mother without her brother in the the room. Apperantly they are going off the assumption that because she looks like me (which she does not--which really has no bearing really) that my dad is her father) that my father is her father.
Now my father is/was no saint and did have sex with this women but not in the time frame to have concieved this child. She was born July 92 which means she was concieve Oct. 91 give or take. My dad had just taken custody of me in Aug and it was a busy few months trying to get me enrolled into school. And the mother in all this was not even in the same state.
The mother of this girl went after child support of another man and got it, now that the girl is 19 they are just now telling her another man is her father. (the mother and D).
A tad bit of back story this cousin was mad at my father because my father torn down the house that my grandmother owned. The house was condemed* and the county had given my family a date to either get it tore down and cleaned up or they would step in and do it and then would lose the plot of land. Since my other cousin (S) owned 3 shares of the land (her mothers after her death, hers, and her brothers since he was under 18) and my dad owned another they did not need the consent of my uncle (A). It was either get it cleaned up or lose it. A and D are mad cause they didnt have a say, and D is mad cause he was not in my grandmothers will (sucks to act stupid).
So I told C that there was no way that my father was hers. My dad is going to be contacting her in the near future to tell her himself, but right now he is in canada driving a truck so when he gets back down in the states he will. He needs to talk to his wife first so she knows whats going on.
So in the end, I am hoping this young women can find closer and her family will stop jerking her around just to piss off family members.!