I know I have seen a post similar to this on here one of these days, but I can't find it anymore. I'd really appreciate your advice. I have been with my husband for about 7 years now (and lived together for about 4 of those) and we used to have very passionate sex maybe 4 or 5 times a week. But since we got married, I am lucky if we have sex twice a month! He is still very affectionate with me, maybe even more so than before. But just no sex... and I'm getting a bit frustrated. I've tried everything (or at least it feels that way). It's even gotten me feeling unattractive, undesirable. I've talked to him several times about it, he just says he doesn't feel like it. I know it's nothing wrong with him medically since I've seen that he watches porn sometimes (I don't normally have a problem with that, unless it gets in the way of our own intimacy... which I'm starting to think it is). I don't want to forbid him from watching or doing something he wants... but I miss sex!