So I decided to compromise with my H and not complain about him taking my MIL upstate to visit his other kid since his ex refuses to let the child anywhere near me. I told him, I would relinquish objections if he could leave NYD instead of eve, which he agreed to. MIL is pissed because she wants to leave today. I've decided not to care. So I'm putting all of the bills that need to be paid this week together and tell H what I need from him. He blows his stack and tells me that I should have thought of this before MIL came here, because he needs to take her shopping and pay for gas and tolls upstate. My response was that he put off paying the car insurance so its not my fault that its due. We paid for her tickets to get here so, I suggested that he have her pay for the trip upstate. HE flipped out (earlier in her stay she had to pay some tolls and gas, and she gently reminded him that we owed her the money for the gas and tolls she had paid). I have been trying to follow what you guys are saying, but how unreasonable is this? He is mad at me, and I don't think he has a right to be. Does he?