Last night, my husband and I got into an argument. I have 2 sick kids at home, who are not sleeping at night. I'm doing my best to get everything done, and take care of them. He comes home and starts yelling at me because I left the television on downstairs. I was listening to the radio, he turned it off. The computer was on, he turned it off. I was drinking a glass of wine, he dumped it. He continued to tell me that if I tried harder I could get everything done. I got upset, went into my bedroom and told him that I was now going to do nothing, to which he muttered, "what else is new?".
Later, after I had cooled down and the kids were in bed, I tried to talk to him. He told me he had nothing to apologize for; I got upset and started to cry, and he started to laugh at me and tell me that I'm immature and not equal to him, and that I don't "step up" enough. He continued to compare me to my best friend, telling me that she has 3 sick kids right now and he bets her house is spotless and that she doesn't complain to her husband after he works a 13 hour shift. Needless to say, nothing got resolved and I got more upset so I went to bed.
Fast forward to this morning. He doesn't say good morning until I do. He acts like nothing happened. I was with the baby and he comes out of the bedroom and tells me we are going to have house guests tomorrow. I asked what that was about and he said his friends brother died and that his friend and his family (of 5!) were going to come stay with us (they live out of town) for the funeral. He didn't ask me, or give me any heads up. I'm upset over the argument and that he feels he was not wrong, and now I'm upset that he doesn't even think to check with me regarding many house guests. Would you be upset? What would you do? Thanks, ladies.