I have been with my now husband for four years, married for eight months, we are very happy together but we lead VERY hectic lives. He works three jobs and I have a job that requires a lot of overtime. Since we've gotten married my sex drive has practically disappeared. He wants it anytime all the time, but never really initiates it, then gets mad when we don't do it. I don't know how to get 'back in the groove' of things, I feel like I've gotten myself into a hole I can't dig myself out of. I would like to have more sex, but I just don't have the drive for it. I'm in my twenties so this should NOT be happening, I just don't know what to do anymore. Any tips?