For Christmas I wanted to take out my closest friends and their SOs to dinner. There is 1 other person (we'll call her Jane for the sake of simplifying things) that is also close with my close friends.
I've know Jane for 20ish years, but some stuff has happened within the last 4-5 years that has made us not as close, but we were never really close to begin with either.
Then Jane did something about a year and a half ago that I'm morally against and I'm really trying to cut my ties with her.
I haven't contacted Jane in a few months, but we have been at 2 of the same parties within the last few months- so I have seen her.
Would it make me a huge b!tch to invite all of the other friends to dinner and not invite Jane, knowing full well that Jane will probably find out that she's not invited?