I have been very close friends with my cousin for a while as well as her best friend. We hung out all of the time, relied and supported eachother, even worked together because i got them a job. Their Birthdays were a couple of months ago and for both i planned fun surprises and made a big deal as well as spending a good chunk of money. Because of all i had done for them they promised to plan a trip for my birthday which was their idea. My sis and them were supposed to be planning it until my sis infomed me they had not contacted her even though my sister figured out a Hotel, they hadn't done anything else to prepare. I waited a week until i got fed up and asked them if they were actually going to go. They said they could go but didn't have money, but in a tone like they were doing me a favor by being there. We had this huge convo where we cried and it got worse and worse where thye stated they never expected it to work out so they never really thought they had to plan. I thought this was sooo messed up i got mad and left. Later that night they came to my house and i thought they were going to apoligize but instead brought up stuff from the past that i did wrong. I was so boggled and confused and pissed. THey had never voiced these complaints prior, i feel like they were deflecting.
Since then we haven't talked but they are now hanging out with some other people that i have had problems with. They put pics and updates on Facebook, which feels like rubbing it in my face.. My B'day was not too long ago and they didn't do anything just sent a text. I have a hard time dealing with this so i can't talk or see them, it hurts too much. But they are family, what do i do? I feel so betrayed and i never saw it coming.