Ever since my husband and I have started having sex almost 2 years ago, I've had trouble even getting aroused and wanting to have sex at all and when we do, it's very painful for him to enter. I've been told by my gynecologist that my hymen was never torn (I think that's what it's called- I was never given the sex talk or learned anything about sex) and that I hold all my tension/stress there so it's very tight. I've had physical therapy to help with this but because of insurance we had to stop and it didn't really help anyway. I also have poylycystic ovarian syndrome and we've also changed birth controls to natural forms rather then hormonal since my gynecologist said they might be prohibiting me from getting aroused.It helped a little but after I stopped hormonal for a few months, it died down to nothing. Has anyone dealt with these issues? I would like to email with someone if anyone has any ideas or has dealt with this in a helpful way.