I found out that my future sil (bil's fi) was talking poop about my wedding during the weekend and was disrespectful to my relatives while we were taking pictures. My wedding have you, was five months ago. I would like to confront her about it because I find it hurtful to me. She confronted me a while back about something she was annoyed about and I told her how I was feeling about some of her actions that I never got off my chest in a mature way.( this was also many months later) Well that blew up in my face because she went and blew it out of proportion and made my BIL call me and stick it to me. I honestly want have a healthy relationship with her where we can talk to each other like normal mature people if there is an issue, but due to past circumstances, I have been putting this off. Honestly, I get along well with my BIL, not close, but cordial, but I know in reality, this is a catch 22 and I shouldn't really care what happens at least if she's goes running to him again, I'll be prepared!