I was unemployed for a year and a half, and it was the year we got married, so we began our lives on the concept that my work was "100% of the house work" DH cleaned the cats' box and that was it. Well, now I'm in nursing school full time AND working about 15 hours a week tutoring algebra in between my classes to make some money and working makes me feel good about myself.
BUT... somehow he still expects me to still do 100% of the housework. I don't think he intentionally wants it to all fall on me, but his actions speak louder than his words... He never does anything unless I beg him, and have to continue asking him several days in a row, and it might get done a week later.
Does anyone else have a situation where they were unemployed and it made sense to do more work, but now that you're back to work, DH seems unable to go back to helping out around the house?