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please recommend a condom...

tomorrow marks 6 weeks. I'm scared. Tongue Tied Does KY work okay with condoms or is astro glide better? I feel like such a rookie.

Re: please recommend a condom...

  • Hrm.  I don't think I've ever used AG.  I vote KY.  I've obv never been in your situation but my advice is to relax (can you have a glass of wine first?) and go sloooooowly.

    ETA: and have fun!  duh!  haha

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  • You might have to try a lot of different condoms before your H finds one that fits him correctly.  

    We have always used KY, but you have to be careful, if you have to reapply and you have a tear, it huuurrrts!! (story of my life, ugh)

     

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    Both are fine.  Just take it slow.

    ETA:  Also if you're not ready don't feel pressured to do it.  6 weeks is the minimum time to let your body heal.  If you feel you need more time by all means take it.

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  • we have the extra thin ones under the sink just in case.
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  • We used the pre-lubed ones, too. They were just fine. I needed some extra "help" (i tore with ds and was super afraid about sex for weeks after), so we used KY without issues.

    I know it's scary to think about hitting that mark...just take it slow, try to relax, and I hope you two can have some fun!

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  • When we used condoms, we went with the Ultra Thin. KY works fine when you need it.
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  • No condom recs here. But I vote going with AG - I've heard women tend to get yeast infection a little more easily if they haven't been active in a while with KY. Such was my luck last month. I'm getting AG for when K finally does come home.
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  • I must be an odd ball because I hate Trojan. We use Durex because it's the only one that hasn't broken multiple times.
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  • image Lace&Josh:
    I must be an odd ball because I hate Trojan. We use Durex because it's the only one that hasn't broken multiple times.

    If it's breaking you may need a little more lube OR DH needs to try a larger size.  We had a similar problem and then DH stepped up to the magnum sized Trojans.

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  • image Killer Cupcake:

    Just get the pre-lubed condoms (lol). 

    We're using the hot/cold ones by Trojan. I'm not a fan, H is. Otherwise, we just use the super thin ones, again, by Trojan.  

    lol Helllooooo TMI.  

    those do not sound fun lol

    I'm just happy I won't have to waddle to the bathroom with a wash cloth between my legs. I'm lazy.

    We've used magnum's before, are there any other comparable ones that are maybe a little thinner. The last thing I want is for a condom to break the first time we do it. FML at the thought.

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    I'm just happy I won't have to waddle to the bathroom with a wash cloth between my legs. I'm lazy.

    Hahahaha!
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  • We don't like KY products. Even the pre-lubed up condoms aren't enough. We have Just Like Me from PR as a lube. It's awesome and nonsticky. Durex is what we use as well. I put a little extra lube in the condom for him at the tip and then some on the outside for me. 

    Good  Luck! : D 

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  • We just used trojans. Take it slow lady... and don't be shocked if you get some nasty cramps after doin the horizontal mambo.

    Not trying to scare you...

  • image sgsl2009:
    When we used condoms, we went with the Ultra Thin. KY works fine when you need it.

    This.

    Its been YEARS since we've used them, but he said they were the best in terms of sensation. 

    Either astroglide or ky should be fine.  No need to worry about sperm killing lube :)

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